The truth is, I started out in the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive. Yes, you read that correctly–a submissive.
This BBW phone sex Goddess did indeed start out on the bottom. I dated a switch man for several years, and that’s how I started Topping. He was seriously into bondage, nipple torture, and CBT, so as a result, I’m very well-versed in those particular forms of torment. 😉
Eventually, I found myself growing unhappy, though. The submissive life no longer seemed like it was for me. I ended up leaving that relationship and starting to do phone sex. This was also a number of years ago, so I’ve had quite a bit of both real life AND phone experience!
Since then, I’ve had a few real life subs and a number of phone subs. They all agree that my time as a sub really influenced the way I think about domination and submission. A lot of people might tell you that if you’ve ever been submissive, you can’t possibly be dominant, but I, of course, don’t subscribe to that school of thought. In the leather community, for example, everyone starts as a bottom, and you eventually “graduate” to being a Top. I look at the way my life has gone as sort of a variation of that.
I know what it’s like to be spanked, to be flogged, to serve. I can empathize in ways that people who have never been on both ends of the whip can’t.
This is not to say that people who haven’t switched are somehow lesser than me. It’s just a different experience, that’s all.
But now, I find myself only on top because submission no longer fulfills me. What fulfills me is having a man or woman like you at my feet. If you’d like to serve a BBW Femdom phone sex Goddess, click on one of the buttons below to give me a call!
